Match Your Bach Vibe

Hola, vibe curator.

Not all bachelorette trips are the same. Some groups want champagne on a yacht. Some groups want to close down the club. Some groups want a spa day and a sunset. All three are perfect. The key is knowing which one you are.

Here are three Cabo bachelorette vibes with itineraries for each. Find yours.

The Bougie Bach

The vibe: Luxury everything. The bride has excellent taste and the group chat agreed that this trip should feel elevated. Matching robes. A private chef. The kind of photos that look effortless but definitely were not.

Where to stay: A private villa in Pedregal with an infinity pool and ocean views. Hire a chef for the first night so you arrive to a set table and a chilled bottle.

Day 1: Arrive, villa tour, private chef dinner on the terrace. Rosé, sunset, the bride cries a little. Perfect.

Day 2: Morning yoga at the villa, then a luxury yacht charter with champagne and a raw bar. Back by 3pm for a group spa treatment at one of the Corridor resort spas. Evening: private table at a high-end restaurant in Palmilla. Tasting menu. Sommelier. The works.

Day 3: Late brunch at a restaurant in the San Jose del Cabo art district. Shopping in the galleries. Departure with matching tote bags filled with locally made candles and mezcal. Classy.

Budget: $1,500-2,500 per person for 3 nights.

The Wild Bach

The vibe: This group came to party. The bride wants stories, not serenity. The louder, the better. Matching neon swimsuits. A group chant. At least one moment that nobody can fully remember.

Where to stay: A resort in Cabo San Lucas near the marina. Walking distance to the nightlife strip. All-inclusive if the budget allows, because nobody wants to think about meal planning.

Day 1: Arrive, pool party at the resort, pregame in the rooms, dinner at a lively marina restaurant. Hit the clubs. Cabo San Lucas has a strip of bars and clubs that goes until sunrise. Pace yourselves. (You will not pace yourselves.)

Day 2: Late start. Very late start. Rally by noon for a party yacht with an open bar and a speaker louder than the engine. Snorkeling if anyone can handle it. Back by 4pm, nap, then round two: mezcal bar crawl through downtown, ending at the dance floor of your choice.

Day 3: Recovery brunch. Chilaquiles. Lots of water. One final pool session. Someone finds the photos from night one and the group chat explodes. Departure. No regrets. Some bruises.

Budget: $800-1,400 per person for 3 nights.

The Chill Bach

The vibe: The bride specifically said "nothing crazy." The group is a mix of introverts and people who just want quality time. Think: sunsets, good food, long conversations, and the occasional adventure that does not involve a 5am alarm.

Where to stay: A boutique hotel in San Jose del Cabo or a villa with a pool and a shaded patio. Somewhere with character and quiet.

Day 1: Arrive, check in, walk the San Jose del Cabo art district. Dinner at a farm-to-table restaurant with a courtyard garden. Wine, candles, catching up with people you have not seen in months.

Day 2: Morning beach walk at Palmilla or Chileno Bay. Midday spa treatments. Afternoon: a slow sunset catamaran cruise with the group. Not a party boat. A sailboat with wine and cheese and the sound of the water. Evening: cook dinner together at the villa or try a quiet restaurant in the Corridor.

Day 3: Yoga or meditation on the beach. Brunch somewhere beautiful. Maybe one last dip in the pool. Departure feeling actually rested, which is rare for a bach trip.

Budget: $700-1,200 per person for 3 nights.

How to Choose

Ask the bride. Not what she thinks the group wants. What she actually wants. The best bach trips are the ones that match the bride's real personality, not the Instagram version.

Then check our bachelorette page and build the trip around her answer. Still deciding? Get on our list for bach itineraries, group deals, and the Cabo tips your group needs.